There is a lot of information out there now on what is the right way to build muscle. It all seems contradictory every time you open up Instagram. I want to simplify the process for you and remove the confusion. Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been lifting for years, avoiding these pitfalls can make the difference between spinning your wheels and seeing real gains. Let’s break down the top five muscle-building mistakes and how to steer clear of them.
1. Skipping Progressive Overload
If you keep lifting the same weight, or don’t increase the reps, you’re not sending a strong enough signal to grow. Progressive overload means to increase by one more rep or 5 more pounds than the previous week. This prevents plateaus and gives you proof of progress in the gym indicative of putting on size.
How to Avoid It: This doesn’t always mean adding more weight; you can also increase reps, slow down the tempo, or reduce rest time between sets. Working in Reps In Reserve (RIR). Choose a weight for a given rep range (let’s say 8-10 reps). You want to choose a weight that by the time you hit that 10th rep you are at an RIR2-3 (meaning if you kept going, you could only do 2-3 reps more before your form gives out). This helps standardize the process and allows you to know you chose a heavy enough weight to progress.
2. Neglecting Nutrition
If you want to grow, being in a surplus matters. If you’re not eating enough calories or hitting your protein goals, your muscles won’t have the fuel they need to grow. It doesn’t take much of a surplus, maybe 200-500 calories.
How to Avoid It: Prioritize whole, nutrient-dense foods and aim for 1 gram of protein per pound of your target weight daily. Track your calorie intake to ensure you’re in a slight surplus if your goal is to bulk. You don’t have to track your food forever, but do it for 1-2 weeks to get a baseline of what your maintenance is, and be aware of how much food it actually takes to see the scale go up.
3. Overtraining Without Recovery
We break our muscles down when we are in the gym. They grow when we are resting and sleeping. Sleep and proper recovery matters. If all you do is max out weights in the gym, undereat, and under sleep, you will not grow.
How to Avoid It: Schedule rest days and prioritize sleep. Aim for 7-9 hours of quality sleep per night. Incorporate active recovery like stretching or light cardio, and don’t underestimate the power of a good deload week when needed.
4. Poor Exercise Form
Shortening your form for the sake of throwing your body into it and getting as much weight as possible can hinder your gains (and increase your risk for injury). If you’re not using the correct technique, you’re likely missing the target muscle altogether.
How to Avoid It: Take the time to learn proper form for each exercise. Start with lighter weights and focus on using a full range of motion. Make sure you are getting a stretch at the bottom of the lift WHILE keeping tension on the muscle. When you take that tension off at any part of the lift (specifically the stretch), you are short changing yourself.
5. Inconsistent Training
Consistency is king in muscle-building. Missing workouts here and there or constantly switching programs can stall your progress. Building muscle takes time, and sticking to a plan is crucial.
How to Avoid It: Set a realistic workout schedule that fits your lifestyle and stick to it. Be realistic. Don’t aim for what you hope to achieve. If you can only realistically do two times a week, start there. You can always add days, but if you set the goal too high and don’t hit that frequency, it will feel like failure.
Commit to a program for at least 8-12 weeks before deciding if it’s working. Remember, even small, consistent efforts add up over time.